Possibly a solo person had an important destination to go to. Or that person was caught up in thinking, so he or she brushed it off. Bullshit.
People donated to make themselves look good. If it was friends together, they donated to demonstrate their kindness. If it was a parent and child, the parent donated to teach the child good values as an ideal parent would do. If it were two partners, they donated to show that they are loving people. "The Mother Teresa Effect" is when people donate and give only when others take notice.
If a tree falls in a forest, does anyone notice? If a small child cries on Christmas Day, does anyone care?
Of the people that denied giving, many people excused themselves from donating because they had donated through their church. The church people donated in church because other's noticed.
Donating is entirely a social interaction. To receive overwhelming charity, the charitable must know other's being charitable (hosting a charity dinner is a good way to accomplish this). Are people cold hearted? Yes, but as one dwells into the souls of others love is found.
Have a wonderful end to your Thanksgiving weekend.
